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October 1, 2019 0

So apart from raping pregnant women, married women, There is the case of forcing a lady to abort which led to her death. I didn't know of this story till I left COZA. A family friend of the victim reached out to me in the DMs. This was the one took me out. It was all too much.

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August 1, 2019 0

People ask about the difference between forgiveness and justice, especially in the context of sexual assault. When one forgives, is there any need to ask for justice? People usually say to survivors, “Why don’t you just forgive and let’s move on?” We tell the survivors, “Well if you can’t forgive now, perhaps after counseling and prayer, you should be able to.”...

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August 1, 2019 0

We don’t tell Tamar’s story most times to preserve David’s reputation as “a man after god’s own heart”. At the same time, silence from us as leaders heaps more shame on survivors like Tamar.

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August 1, 2019 0

Many people come to church. They sing, they clap, they dance, they look good on the outside, they say the right things, they go through the motions of Christianity, but beneath the externals, they are bleeding internally.